In my opinion, these are some basic rules I find useful to abide by in order to have a successful first date. Remember, you can’t just ask for respect without showing respect. Without further ado, here's a list of ten things you shouldn't do on a first date:

1. Don't be late: Being punctual shows respect for your date's time and sets a positive tone for the evening.
2. Don't talk excessively about yourself: While it's important to share information about yourself, monopolizing the conversation can come off as self-centered. Make sure to also ask your date questions and show genuine interest in getting to know them.
3. Don't bring up controversial topics: Avoid discussing sensitive or controversial topics such as politics, religion, or past relationships, especially if you're unsure of your date's views. These topics can lead to uncomfortable conversations or disagreements.
4. Don't use your phone excessively: Constantly checking your phone or texting during the date can signal disinterest and lack of engagement. Keep your phone on silent and focus on enjoying the company of your date.
5. Don't forget basic manners: Remember to use polite language, say please and thank you, and demonstrate good table manners if you're dining out. Small gestures of courtesy go a long way in making a positive impression.
6. Don't drink too much alcohol: While it's okay to have a drink or two, avoid excessive drinking on a first date. Being intoxicated can impair your judgment and behavior, potentially leading to embarrassing or regrettable situations.
7. Don't be overly critical or negative: Avoid complaining or criticizing others, whether it's about the restaurant, the weather, or anything else. Maintaining a positive attitude creates a more enjoyable atmosphere for both you and your date.
8. Don't rush physical intimacy: Respect your date's boundaries and avoid making unwanted advances. Let the relationship progress naturally, and only engage in physical intimacy if both parties are comfortable and consenting.
9. Don't talk about your ex: Bringing up past relationships can make your date feel uncomfortable and give the impression that you're not over your ex. Focus on the present moment and getting to know your date instead.
10. Don't forget to follow up: After the date, don't leave your date hanging. Send a polite text or call to thank them for the evening and express your interest in seeing them again if you had a good time.

Remember, be casual, don't panic, remember to avoid these 10 things on a first date and you'll be fine. Happy dating!

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